When aftercare is the most dangerous part of a BDSM scene

Claire
12 min readSep 15, 2023

Pushing boundaries, dancing the line between pleasure and pain, being on display and flooded with sensation is the easy part.

Photo by Анатолий Андреев: https://www.pexels.com/photo/grayscale-photo-of-a-woman-tied-with-a-rope-11089655/

I wanted to write an interesting, intellectual, almost academic article about relationship theory, sex and intimacy, weaving it with knowings about attachment trauma, understanding of the complexities of human connection and generally raise…

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Claire

Adventurer, word-lover, nature-enthusiast, psychotherapist, creative.