Look to nature. Strawberries are sending out runners, ivy is reaching across pavements.

Pushing boundaries, dancing the line between pleasure and pain, being on display and flooded with sensation is the easy part. I wanted to write an interesting, intellectual, almost academic article about relationship theory, sex and intimacy, weaving it with knowings about attachment trauma, understanding of the complexities of human connection…

So many people tell you “at least you’re not…./ or at least you’ve got….” Fuck em! If you feel rubbish, feel rubbish! You’ve probably heard the hypothetical tale of that one poor person in the world that actually has it worse than everyone else. I would counter that somewhat obnoxiously…

Thoughts when you don’t have a home. When you haven’t got a place to call home, how do you manage your belongings? If you’re lucky enough to stay in the same room for a week I suppose a pile in the corner will suffice. If you’re still living your regular…

A book but also a state of mind. I read this book years ago; I can’t remember much detail of it but I do know it fundamentally changed my perspective on human connection, everyday encounters and the things we might never know. The layers I was reminded of it recently when a…

Messages from the universe? My living situation is precarious, my finances insecure, it’s safe to say I’m in a spot where I’m looking for meaning in all sorts of places — do you think the following experience is significant? A couple of weeks ago I started to notice car number…

@raisingboys_2men asked this of his sons. They both wanted more one on one time with him. https://www.instagram.com/reel/CsYXhjjoFwX/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Have you ever asked this question? Have you ever been asked this question? If you did ask the question are you prepared for any answer? If you were asked the question did you…

I know there’s been studies done on this. I started to wonder who the audience was that they studied. I wondered if it is was neurotypical, corporate-types. Those where quick-thinking, surface-level, impress-me stuff is necessary. As a neurodivergent, introvert who is reluctantly accepting that everything takes longer for me, including…

It’s 50 minutes of dedicated writing time with people from all over the world on Zoom. Find it here. It’s been a bloody revelation to me. And not just because it makes me write more than if I didn’t attend. …